The Change

Ide diambil dari pertunjukan "Oprah Show" edisi Jumat, 13 Januari 2006

Jim/Jennie and Deedie

This is a story about the couple that married for 16 years long, a loving husband turning to be a fully woman.

Named Jim, the husband of Deedie. Jim - which change name to Jennie - said that he had always wanted to be a woman, its since the child lifely-hood. Even though he keeps the stuggle to not fallen into a woman, in the year of 10th of his wedding with Deedie, he finally told his wife - the woman that he love - about his desire to become a woman.

Jim/Jennie once thought that marriage will cure him. At his post-graduate school, Jim/Jennie was most of the time playing role as a female, wearing lipstick, dress like a woman, and walking down at the streets without anyone can figure that it was Jim under the skirt and those make-up.
Jim met Deedie. They got married, and blessed with two sons.

The desire were actually still there and even grew stronger after a 10 years marriage," Jim said to the audience.

According to Jim, the marriage was infact unable to pushed away his long-life time desire, which is to become a fully-woman.

"What was your 1st impression when Jim came to you and deliver his will to become a woman?" ask Oprah to Deedie - who accompanied Jim at the show.

"I was shocked. I felt betrayed, been foolished, and sad," Deedie answered, "Sad because I knew that I'm loosing my husband."

But Deedie and Jennie are still a married couple after the fully surgery happened 5 years ago. Deedie considered that inside Jennie theres still a man - a person that she married to, even though Jim was not there anymore phisically -

Jim/Jennie wrote a book about this trans-sexual process. One of the words is saying that at their last sex-activity, "After we had sex, Deedie was laying at my (Jennie's) breast, with boobs. Deedie's tears was scrowling down in my stomach."

"Shes not not there", when Deedie told Jennie that she is not a lesbian, that is why Deedie just cant have sex anymore with Jennie...
Deedie and Jennie are more like friends or siblings now. They share closet, make-up, and skirt. "I was angry at the beginning, but then again I can except her (Jennie) in my room, in my bed," Deedie explained.